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Stop Moving On

a photo of a friend espcaping westgate {elaine dang, injured by shrapnel}

a photo of a friend espcaping westgate {elaine dang, injured by shrapnel}

The Westgate battle is over. 67 lives were taken. Al-Shabab made it clear that their malice and bigotry is both strategic and boundless. If you want to get people’s attention, hit what they care about most; money. How do you do that? Instill fear in the expat (foreign) community that contributes so much to the Kenyan economy.

Al-Shabab knows that scaring out the foreigners (expats and tourists) will do more damage to Kenya than killing thousands of people. Kenya knows it too. Sad but true. This attack was well planed and very strategic. One can only assume this is a sign of what’s to come, not only in Kenya, but across the globe.

Unfortunately the issues that caused this tragedy will persist. Just like in the aftermath of 9/11, people will be more focused on “getting back to normal” than accepting the responsibility of proactively addressing the deeper issues that caused this event and so many others like it around the world.

Society has perfected the habit of choosing the easiest route back to comfort and perceived safety. Just put it behind you and get back to work. What?

My hope is that this tragedy brings more attention (and action) to the real issues at hand.

Greed and bigotry eventually result in violence. People die. People seek revenge. Repeat. Violence begets violence.

But those in power, worldwide, believe they cannot afford to patiently and holistically deal with the root issues that lead to these outbreaks. So they create short term “solutions” like getting back to normal and moving on in order to appease and comfort the general public. Along with it, they conjure up whatever lies suit their short term needs. In time, most people will move on from those too.

People prefer to stifle their fear and get back to business. It’s the standard response to tragedy. We rarely even allow time to mourn. This keeps us stagnant and vulnerable for the next catastrophe to unfold.

If the horrific loss of human life like this doesn’t cause society to pause, contemplate and proactively dismantle the misperceptions that lead to hate and bigotry, what will? When we will stop fighting the issue and start making actual peace? Peace doesn’t manifest from bigger guns.

If you follow the Twitter feeds (not recommended) you can see that there are two very basic, natural and pervasive reactions to this type of tragedy.

  1. The desire to move on and get back to normal as quickly as possible.
  2. The desire for revenge.

Both are symptoms of fundamental misperceptions. We have to start fostering reactions of peace, grace and patience. But these things are so uncommon now that they almost seem unnatural, (which is absurd). Society typically alleviates its responsibility to manifesting these concepts by writing them off as “idealistic” or “utopic”.

This isn’t a religious war. It’s not about Christianity and Islam or Americans, Kenyans or Somalis. This is about who controls the most people. This has provided an immutable platform for thousands of years of war.

Society’s desire for control and comfort continues to trump the value of human life and relationships. Until that shifts, we will continue to experience these atrocities, likely at an exponential rate.

Things usually get worse before they get better.

I am not eager to move on. I’m desperate for a paradigm shift in how we deal with the misperceptions that result in real terrorist acts and all that leads up to them. My heart hurts for the thousands that have already lost their lives to this game society is so willing to engage in and perpetuate.

Should we be so motivated to move on? What’s the real motivation behind that desire? What does that do to prevent these atrocities from reoccurring?

Is there an easy or all encompassing answer? No. But it will take patience. A lot more than we, as a society, are used to exhibiting. Something has to change.

I’m not expecting this to be a popular post. I’m well aware that my perspective on these issues is not typically appreciated. Most people will write this post off as idealistic, naïve and insensitive.

I would argue that paradigm shifts are intrinsically linked to idealism. And idealism is only appreciated after it’s proven to work. Prior to that, it’s viewed as naivety.



  1. Teri @ on September 27, 2013 at 7:55 PM

    Idealism changes the world.
    Realism just bitches about it.

  2. Kevin Miller on September 27, 2013 at 8:24 PM

    Love your heart and passion in this Bro. This line…big hot button for me, “Society has perfected the habit of choosing the easiest route back to comfort and perceived safety.” This feels like THE battle, for myself and others.

  3. Jonathan on September 27, 2013 at 11:16 PM

    Takes no less than courage, faith and a hedge of protection to act right in the face of violence.

  4. Jared Angaza on September 28, 2013 at 6:57 AM

    Nice one! I completely agree.

  5. Jared Angaza on September 28, 2013 at 7:03 AM

    I agree. I think this is THE battle we face as a collective society. I see it the slums in Africa, the slums in America, and in the affluent businesses all over the world. It’s the same battle. The same tendency to put passion and idealism in a box labeled “Irresponsible, Naive and Not Possible”….Until you actually pull it off. Then they call you a hero. I long for a paradigm shift in this way of thinking. And I hope it doesn’t take continued terrorism and death to shock people into new perspectives.

  6. Joanne Miller on September 28, 2013 at 2:03 PM

    Good blog, Jared. Ought to be picked up by the Huffington Post or some media outlet. Seriously worried about what our world is coming to. Wondering if it will ever change before we blow up the planet entirely. Sad commentary. But fighting violence with violence just perpetuates the problem. And for many, revenge is a way of life. Well said, my son. Your heart is good. So, so thankful you and your family were home when all this occurred. But I am heartsick for those who were not……… I send my love to all……..

  7. melanie jackson on September 28, 2013 at 3:53 PM

    jared …sounds to me like you are following what Jesus said for us to do……

  8. Jared Angaza on September 29, 2013 at 8:08 AM

    Thanks mom. Yes, it’s sad indeed. It weighs heavy on my heart, as you know. As always, I see this as an perspective issue. Something has to change.

  9. Gail Hyatt on September 29, 2013 at 10:59 AM

    I echo these words. Thank you for your courage Jerod. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, Joanne. 😉

  10. Jared Angaza on September 29, 2013 at 2:02 PM

    Thanks Gail. That’s definitely a compliment!

  11. mattie dibona on October 1, 2013 at 12:23 AM

    as long as men continue to be numb to all the situations you mentioned, there will be very little if any change in any country.

  12. Jared Angaza on October 1, 2013 at 8:10 AM

    I agree Mattie. That’s a big part of the problem, worldwide.

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